Have you noticed a particularly interesting phenomenon?
The people in life who seem to be “not nice” are often the best to live with.
They eat fiercely as a tiger, walking as fast as the wind, talking to the point, hot-tempered and easy to anger, sharp words, but it is this kind of people, always in the first time you are stuck and helpless to lend a helping hand.
Those who seem gentle, soft-spoken and always smiling are often the ones who can give you the most bone-chilling chills at critical moments.
Behind all this lies an imperceptible truth about human nature.
Hot-tempered people have the truest and cleanest emotions
I have a friend who has a temper, and he's a bit of a hothead.
When the bystanders appear to be at fault, she will point out on the spot; when she encounters injustice, she will refute it vehemently; if she is aggrieved, she will definitely not hold her words in her heart.
A lot of people think she is not emotionally intelligent and doesn't understand the world. But to be honest, I extraordinarily enjoy spending time with her.
Why? Because she's the least deliberate performer I've ever met.
If you think about it, hot-tempered people are actually the ones who can't fake it the best.
They laugh when they're happy, get angry when they're angry, cry when they're upset, and never hide it.
This kind of people's anger comes quickly and retreats quickly, never hold a grudge against others, after all, their emotions are the real reaction of the moment, the heart is simply not those complex calculations.
They can not see the slightest injustice will be outspoken, aggrieved must be expressed on the spot, from the negative emotions will not be stored up in the bottom of the heart, and will not wait for the opportunity to retaliate.
Those who are quick to lose their tempers have the cleanest hearts; the really scary ones are the ones who are always smiling at you.
People with a knife's mouth are often the ones who can least afford to hurt others
When I grew up, I realised that people with a knife's mouth and a tofu's heart speak so directly because they believe in their hearts that the truth is more valuable than politeness.
and the former is really good for you.
They would rather talk about your shortcomings to your face than talk about your rights and wrongs behind your back.
The fact that they dare to speak so directly is, quite frankly, a sign of trust and care for you.
Think about it, why would they want to offend you? If they didn't really want to do it for your own good, who would want to be the villain?
Truly sinister people are polite on the surface, but often stab in the back.
Not so with knife-edge people, who may hurt your face for a moment, but protect your insides.
They'd rather they be misunderstood as bad people than say what needs to be said.
People with fiery personalities are the best people to get along with instead
Some might say how can a hot-tempered person be nice to be around?
It's because of their fiery temper that you always know exactly where their bottom line is when dealing with them - after all, they'll tell you about it straight away.
They will not act in defiance of the law, they will not appear to be doing one thing behind the scenes, and they will not silently hold a grudge and wait for the autumn to settle the scores.
This transparent to the end way of getting along, instead, makes relationships simple and safe.
I used to have a colleague who was so quick-tempered and straight-talking.
At first everyone was a bit scared of her and thought she was not easy to get along with.
But as time went on, we realised that she was the most reliable person in the whole team.
She'll point out where you're going wrong, point out your problems to your face, and yet always be the first to step up and help you solve them.
With her, you do not have to rack your brains to guess the mind, do not have to beat around the bush to figure out the heart, her preferences are never ambiguous: like is like, hate is hate, no cover.
This just proves the saying, ‘A bad-tempered man writes his emotions on his face, and a scheming man hides his calculations in his heart.’
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Truly good people often have a little ‘problem’.
They may be short-tempered, they may be spiteful, they may seem less than ‘perfect’.
But it's the little things that reveal the truest goodness of their hearts.
If you are such a person, please don't let the misunderstanding of others change your colour. In a world that is becoming more and more adept at disguises, your unadorned true nature is the most precious treasure.
If you are surrounded by such people, then make sure to cherish them as well.
Don't be intimidated by their appearance, try to understand the care behind their words and try to feel the tenderness in their actions.
Because in an age where hearts are getting more and more complicated, it's such a rare blessing to meet someone who writes their heart on their face.
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